Falling In Love With Yourself

Let yourself shine. Take the time to express what brings you happiness. Let yourself bathe in a light of golden hues. You can be happiest with others when you are most happy with yourself. Let go of what you think you should or should not be. Be who you feel you are. You can do this by listing to your heart....yourself).

In much of our everyday day life we can try to appeal to those around us. Whether this may be with clothes, appearance or attitude, let yourself be known. But what does this mean, "let yourself be known?"

Many factors comes into play when you aren't connecting to who you really are. It's easy to become distracted and get caught up in creating a person we believe is the "perfect us." But how do we know what is "perfect?"

We don't.

There will be never a perfect you, and that is okay. there will always be the best and trusts you. There is always room for growth. You are constantly growing.You and everyone around you all share something in common; we are all imperfect.

It's easy to look at someone and compare yourself to them. You may think to yourself: they're so much more beautiful than me, they make way more money than me or they are better than me.

When you compare yourself to others, you are degrading yourself. By appealing to what you think you "have to be," you aren't living your own true identity. Doing this can lead to depression, anxiety, and dissociation with yourself.

Why? Because trying to be who others are disconnects you from who you are.

These are the things that can happen when you push aside who you are. No one wants unnecessary hurt on themselves. That is why building a relationship with yourself is so important. By doing this you can learn to trust and accept yourself.

Like many relationships, they take time, patients, and care to build. The best relationships come with trust. Learn to trust yourself and over time you will begin to. Trusting yourself is one of the key points to being a happy person with yourself.

Taking care of your wants and needs is another important step to self guidance as well. Disregard what you may believe others view you as, and do what makes you happy.

Let go of any resentment you have over yourself and let change come into yourself. Once you begin to trust your self, things in your life will become much more clear. Things may also appear more fluid and easier to do.

When you are more connected to who you are you can have more confidence in the things you like, want, and do. This will lead you into a lighter and fuller life.

You want the best for yourself. You truly deserve that. But you have to want it. Change is not always easy but it is apart of life.

When building a relationship with yourself, you learn to love, trust and understand yourself in a deeper and receptive way.

Be the change you want to see in your life and in yourself.

Love,

Aiyana

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